I am a sporty, fairly intelligent, outgoing Uni graduate who works in a town. Previously in cities I lived in, it was easy to find a girlfriend who shared my sports hobbies, interests of reading, being worldly and having lively discussions. I'm finding it very hard to find someone here who actually shares things in common with me, who are within my age range (am 35 but looking for anything less than 37). They're tolerant towards outsiders, but not very open-minded to anyone who is from outside the town when it comes to relationships. It's also not easy to have a relation with someone from nearby cities as during the initial phase, the most important period, it's not easy to go out to places on a whim, but has to be planned to taken into consideration travelling time, etc. I'm prepared to move if necessary. but for the right person once I know them as I'd need to find a new job. Any helpful suggestions are most welcome. Many thanks in advance:)