Crazy Hobbies
How do I make new friends and "broaden" my horizons???
I am a Mom, work Part-Time and may be losing my marriage.....how do I make new friends? I need a hobby maybe, but I'm not artsy - crafty and have no real talents...what should I do? How can I find out what interests or talents that I may have?
Public Comments
- It sounds like you have a lot going on in your life right now. Maybe you should concentrate on working on your marriage before trying to make friends. You have children to think about and want them to have a stable home. Try to get your husband to go to a marriage counselor. If he won't go, then go by yourself. I'm sure there are a few mothers of your kids' friends that you like. Ask them over for coffee or a play date. See if there is a play group in your area (if your children are young). It's a great way to get to know other people in your neighborhood. Also, if your children are in school, volunteer at the school or in the classroom. You'll meet a lot of great people there and helping others makes you feel good. Please work on your marriage though. Good Luck!
- You need a confidence boost. Rather than thinking about what you're good at, think about what you'd enjoy. Hobbies aren't necessarily about being good at something, just about having an interest and having fun. Also everyone has to start somewhere so you won't be the first or last person to be new to a hobby. I recently started volunteering with a local Brownie (girl scouts?) group, have joined a reading group and am starting a sign language course next week. You are bound to meet people and make friends once you get out and about and build your confidence. I hope that everything works out for you and your husband.
