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How to get over your ex?

Well I was with this guy for 2 years and 5 months and we broke up 4 months ago, got back together for a week and broke up again. Its been two months since the second break up and he is with someone else. I am in a better position then I was before but I still feel like Im hung up on him. Its hard and it still hurts. Right now I have been trying to expand my horizons: meeting new people, trying out new hobbies but it seems like nothing is really making it better. Instead I feel like I'm stuck especially since i havn't been really meeting anyone that I'm too interested in. The worst part about it is that he is friends with all my group of friends and so is his new girlfriend.. I can't escape without isolating myself and the thing is...I feel like I lost the best thing in my life... how am I supposed to get over that?

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talk to him about it.
plain and simple, find someone who is BETTER than he was. Someone who can offer you more in anything.
delete him from your phone, then screw his hotter best friend
just ignore it move there alot of think to do then that
Oh girl I am feeling this question right now....I am in a similar position. Just give it time...it will help....it will be hard to see him though, so if you can try not seeing him or her for awhile that would help. But don't isolate, that does not help. You seem to be ont he right track, and it will get better....you even said you feel a little better now than you did when it first happened.
maybe you can't get over him and liking new people because you thought he was perfect and that no one could be better than him. so now that you see these other guys you are not interested in them. just keep trying and it will soon be where it must. good luck
Be patience sweetheart, and time will heal all pain. Maybe you should not hang out with them right now, find you someone special and give him your attention and when its all said and done you will be proud of the decision you made.
the only question is do u still like him?if yes,then try and fined out if he likes u,or wait till he dumps tat other grll.if no, WOWWWW u need 2 find a man u like and he lyks u!there try that!
Well as you know it's going to be hard but you have to make youself believe that you're over him. If you keep telling youself that you're over him then eventually you'll believe it. Trust me i've been throught the same thing and i know how hard it is to get over someone you love. Try and keep yourself busy that can also hel. Good Luck
okay. i dated this guy for eight months and we broke up two years ago. i just recently got over him and it is never easy, especially when you see them all the time and theyre with someone else. but youve got to remember something: what went wrong and why did you guys break up? plus, youre living your own life and everyone has a soulmate. you just havent found yours yet. give yourself some more time and one day youll meet someone and wake up thinking "im free and ive got someone else now." its a good feeling.
yes isolate urself.. dont meet people.. i did that too. now i have a life of my own. well id u go n meet ur friends it seems awkward n desperate right.. try to find other friends and try recreate ur own life..from the start.. forget him and start start start START a new life!!!
You just need to give it time. There is no quick fix.♥♥
I think u didn't lose the best thing. Try to get a man who can understand u
Time will help you. I know this is the typical answer but it will. Take care of yourself and your feelings. You deserve better. There is no point of looking at him with other girl when you know in your heart that there is no turning back. Stay away from them. At least him and his new gf. You are doing a good job, meeting new people and hobbies. I mean, there is not much to do than tell yourself time will heal and new love will come.
THIS IS GONNA LOOK LIKE A LONG BORING ANSWER, BUT READ IT ALL. IT WILL GIVE U SOME USEFUL ADVICE. :] okay um im going through the same thing. me n my bf went out for a loooong time, then he broke up with me out of hte blue. but then we went back out for like 3 days. then he dumped me again. so TRUST ME wheni say i know how ur feeling. i also know how u feel about the whole "his group is friends with my group" thing...cause yea same thing happened to me. girl u have 2 options. OPTION 1: if u really absolutely love him with all ur heart, then u need to do this. okay first just call him. if its an answering machine, then leave a message non-related to whats going about the breakup. just like "hey its me. um i was just wondering if u knew the homework for _____'s class. call me bakc. bye" then he pretty much has to call u back. while ur on the fone with him just ease into the convorsation. just say like you know we also really need to talk about when we broke up. thats the easyest way to say it. ask him things like do u really like ur new girlfriend? and do u miss me at all? u need to let him know that u feel this way because his "new girlfriend" might just be someone hes trying to use to get over u. TRUST ME. when u tell him how u feel about him, say something like "u know i miss u so much. and i hate that ive lost u. i love u with all my heart and i just cant loose u." if hes worth ur time then he'll say i love u back. also if it seams as if hes giving u the hint that he likes u back, u need to tell him that if hes happy with his girlfriend then he needs to stay with her. [he wont actually do it. itll just seam as if ur willing to give him options and as if ur willing to do anything for him] if ur NOT gettin the vibe that he likes u back, then just kinda ease out of the subject. like say oops i dropped the fone and then change the subject right after that. but then when its time to get off say i love u then hang up really quick. after this fone convorsation hopefully hell reilize what hes missed and hell reilize he feels the same way. OPTION 2.... this one is if ur about to die if u cant get him back. :] okay so if u have a myspace, on christmas eve post a bulliton just saying how much u love him, lyrics to your song if yall had one, and just saying stuff as in im sorry for whatever i did. to make sure he reads it, at the bottom write if u feel the same way then ull reply to this. if u dont have a myspace then a message on the fone works just as well. if he picks up then just tell him. although its more romantic on a message. i really hope u use some of theese ideas or maybe they will help u think up some of ur own. and remember that u dont have to just get over a guy. its okay to still love him. u just have to tell him or all it will do is hurt more. keeping things bottled up inside are never good so tell him exactly how much u love him. right now!! go go go!!! lol &hearts-hallie!!