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How to get over your ex?
Well I was with this guy for 2 years and 5 months and we broke up 4 months ago, got back together for a week and broke up again. Its been two months since the second break up and he is with someone else. I am in a better position then I was before but I still feel like Im hung up on him. Its hard and it still hurts. Right now I have been trying to expand my horizons: meeting new people, trying out new hobbies but it seems like nothing is really making it better. Instead I feel like I'm stuck especially since i havn't been really meeting anyone that I'm too interested in. The worst part about it is that he is friends with all my group of friends and so is his new girlfriend.. I can't escape without isolating myself.
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- The intensity of the stress you feel is easing and I know that you are seeing this as well. Take heart because this is your sign that things will eventually get to where they are normal again or at least feel the freedom to be yourself again. Till then continue to do what you're doing - you'll eventually get there. Also understand that isolating yourself isn't necessarily a bad thing! Some of our best releases and expressions can come when we are alone. Relish this time and use it to your advantage. Don't be a victim of the situation - take ownership of it! I want to warn that you be careful because I sense that you are hurting and may begin to look for ways to achieve revenge. I urge you to resist this impulse - keep your grace and dignity! Let it go and move on. Being a true adult comes from dealing with these types of situations well over time. Also you don't want to generate bad karma (what goes around comes around - believe me!) Be careful also not to hang with people who encourage you to think negatively about the situation. Just take away the good (lessons learned) and move on. There are a gazillion other stars in the sky. Hope this helps. :) jeritarot@yahoo.com
